I was reading a post this morning about encouraging new mothers; giving them hope that things will get better and reminding them that they are not alone.
And I sat there reading the line, “you got this, mama,” I couldn’t help but think – Why are we encouraging mamas to do this alone?
So, I’m changing the thought process.
Instead of telling a mother that SHE has the strength to get well, I’m going to let her know that WE have the strength to get well.
This may be a bit extreme, but I think it’s important, especially in the postpartum journey, for moms to know that they are not alone. Yes, it’s the most isolating and lonely job when we are in it and struggling, but reaching out for support is key to getting well.
Any therapist would tell you that social connection is vital for a healthy mind. We are social by nature, right? Society, living amongst others, sharing in community. And even if we are introverted and don’t love leaving the comfort of our own home, it does have a magical way of boosting our mood when we get together with people who support us.
Postpartum Support Charleston has lots to offer in terms of social support. Our private Facebook group, our one-on-one Mom Mentors, the variety of support groups that we have throughout the week (gardening, walking, virtual support). We have lots to offer a mom who is searching for some community.
But we are not the only option in Charleston for community. And I want to highlight some of my favorite groups that can help you build your own community of mama friends.
Libraries
Charleston County Public Library or Dorchester County Public Library Join the library for storytime! Babies can start storytime from birth! Babygarten is one group that meets for anyone 0-24 months and is a great way for you to meet other moms.
Virtual Communities
Charleston Moms This is a wonderful local blog group that helps moms find community and get together! Check out their local Facebook groups for playdates!
Fitness Communities
Fit4Mom Charleston and FitMommy Both of these amazing groups have free play dates after their work outs, and even some meetups that are free!
Niche Communities
Lowcountry Babywearing Group Come together at these local meetups to try on carriers and wraps and talk about all things babywearing!
La Leche League of Charleston Meet ups for mothers who are breastfeeding or need support.
Hike It Baby Lowcountry If you like getting outdoors and going on walks with your little one, this is the group for you!
Mugs for Moms
This is an amazing nonprofit organization that hosts art therapy sessions for moms located Downtown. What a great way to find other mom friends!
Mapping Matrescence
Louise with Mapping Matrescence provides a weekly group for moms to help facilitate thoughtful discussion about motherhood while building community!
These groups are all mom focused, but if you are just looking for something to do with your little one and making friends in a public setting sounds like something you can do, check out these other places to join! (Little Gym, Kindermusik, memberships to The Children’s Museum, The SC Aquarium, Charlestowne Landing)
Let us know what your favorite groups in Charleston are! We love being able to share these gatherings with all moms and help everyone build the community that they need!